20 year old dating 33 year old
Occasionally I may break the unofficial "rule" and go out with somebody 10 years younger when we really "click" but at the back of my mind, there's always this concern that maybe I'm taking advantage of her. In fact, you are guaranteed to change in ways you can't predict yet.
In my experience, that's usually what's behind it when people talk about future rewards in ways that don't make sense. Originally Posted by mainebrokerman give the old guy the time of his life- shake things up a bit Find all posts by Cervaise. Relationships aren't supposed to be this much of a headache.
You have all the choice in the world; why would you pick someone who acts like this? He may have many fine qualities, I'm thinking an abundance of emotional maturity But if you think you can make it work then go for it! My most serious age-gap boyfriend was only five years older but I was 19 and that was a big gap at that age.
I understand why alot of people may think he has a girlfriend at least not a serious one but here's just some reasons why I think he doesn't: Gimme her number, I'll call her! Cloud Cuckoo Land Posts: He's gross and immature and wants to have sex with you and will say whatever it takes. Try going no-contact for some set period of time perhaps three months and don't break it--set an expectation with him that, as a matter of respect toward you, he needs to honor the no-contact period.
You are totally correct in diagnosing a disconnect betwen your desires and life stages and perhaps a fundamental attitude toward relationships - what they're for, and who is an appropriate 20 year old dating 33 year old. I'm only a few years older and I can already see how impressionable I was then, and he was 38, he should have known better.
There's this guy who dates a series of younger women for a couple of years apiece, and it's treated like he's a sort of postgraduate program they are going through.
He can be a basically nice guy who you like a lot and are very attracted to and still not be a person you should be with You two don't seem to want the same thing. Find all posts by Giraffe.
Get matched in 90 seconds to a licensed therapist whom you can audio, video and text anytime, anywhere. Sorry -- if you can't handle the age difference then what dating singles chatforfree hell am I supposed to do? He clearly knows this, knows that in any conceivable relationship with you he would by default have all of the power and that this would be really terrible for you, and not only does he wants to date you anyway but wants to string you along for a while first?
He seems confused and I don't think he even knows what he wants - let alone, what he wants from you.
Just don't call her "girl. So you are having second thoughts about this, great!