How soon to respond to online dating email
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I know when I was dating online I scared a woman off with one of my responses when I could have just said nothing at all and been fine. However, you don't want to lose momentum yours or theirs if you wait too many days to write back.
If you aren't interested, you're off the hook. Did I scare her off?
I will generally decrease the time between messages as time goes on. If you like the person, ask them out.
Also about getting to the point and asking me out rather than stringing it along for a million rounds. LoveSelf June 29, Why can't you find 10 or 15 minutes for a quick phone call?
And I mostly get creepy, non-thought-out booty call messages on OKCupid. Women who send these kinds of winks and teasers are often too shy, too lazy, too cheap to subscribe or too busy multi-dating to send a real email. More content from YourTango: Replying 30 seconds later looks desperate, but anywhere in the later that day to the few days later range is just fine until you know each better.
Then, the rest of my day I receive online dating messageswinks, and "I'm intrigued" nudges which are HowAboutWe's equivalent of Match and OkCupid's winks. There is nothing less effective than e-mailing women back instantly. I guess I could use the time to compose a draft response oh please don't do this -- it will be apparent, and it will probably be too long.
For instance, if a guy sends me an email that says "wazzup girl," I am not going to respond. You may unsubscribe at any time.